Of Course It’s Not

It’s not a bad thing, at all. Honestly, I don’t think there’s someone who can separate their head from their heart when they are head over heels in love with their special one. Though, I’m not sure if everyone gets the honor to be completely infatuated with someone. So I think we should be thankful for what we feel.

But you know, wo de xiao meimei, I’m still wondering why you share those beautiful words. I mean, has somebody treated you wrong? Since early this morning, I’ve been having a hard time trying to figure out what is it that you have in mind and how you actually feel. I really wanted to ask what’s going on, but I suppose you would only say that it’s all in the past and things have been taken care of. Well.. I can’t talk to you if you don’t wanna hear it.

But, I’d like to say something, so please listen to me. Whatever you may feel at the moment, don’t keep it to yourself. Whoever it may be that troubling your mind, you got to let him know about it. If it’s really that precious to you, you got to find out the truth. Unless it can be proved, it’s only an assumption. Don’t make assumptions. Assumption is one of the worst things our mind could ever create. It’s going to kill you from the inside.

Just because the text becomes scarcer, just because he doesn’t drop you a “hello” as often, do not presume that he no longer cares or he never really intends to be there for you. Maybe he just forgets. Maybe he’s been caught up in the hustle-bustle of the busy world. Maybe he’s trying so hard to prepare a life for you in the future. So remind him, that you also need him to be there for you, at the moment.

So once again, don’t make assumptions. Cause though we all have those things called to mind and heart, it might work differently for all of us. You wouldn’t’ really figure out what’s in somebody’s mind or heart by looking at yours. If it were me, I’d rather have those words spoken to me, so I can explain. Cause if it’s not, how would I ever explain something you never wanna hear?

So I hope you get the idea. Before even thinking of leaving, give the other person a chance to explain. Cause most of the time, things are not what they seem to be. There’s something I want you to remember. If someone treats you wrong, don’t feel helpless. You’re too amazing to feel helpless. But don’t judge the other person in the first place too. Try to talk it out. Clear the misunderstanding, if any. Find a win-win solution for both parties.

However… If after you did it all nothing seems to work, possibly, the other person can’t appreciate you for who you are. My suggestion is, don’t waste your time with someone who expects you to be less than yourself. Don’t waste your time on someone who makes you feel bad about you being you. You deserve much better than that. But before you make the decision, ensure you did all you have to do. So there’ll be no regret later on.

Btw, I’m not on his side! I just don’t like it if you feel bad.

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